Wednesday, April 17, 2013
Hi Everyone!...
You guys have all been amazing with all the support for our family and Marlee! It has been unbelievable and very touching. But, I have another request....
Marlee's birthday is coming up June 14th. I thought it would be very fitting to have a birthday party / celebration of life / benefit type of party for Marlee. It has been an incredible journey so far and would love to share it with everyone that has supported us/Marlee along the way.
So, this is where all of you come in. I know that many of you have contacts and resources that may be willing to help with Marlee's party. I am looking for a venue, hall, etc to hold the party (preferrably a local place to minimize travel for Marlee). I will also need help with food/catering.
Bernard and Christina have a lot on there plate as it is with the care for Marlee. I know I can't do this on my own, so I hope that there is help out there. If you are able to help, please Facebook Message me or email me at: MamaCan25@gmail.com.
Thank you everyone!! We are very blessed with so many great people with HUGE hearts that have helped keep this family strong and in faith through some of the most difficult times. We hope that this Benefit/Party will be made possible for Marlee. It will also give us the opportunity to personally thank, hug, and even meet all of you!! God truly has blessed us with so much love and hope through all of you.
With Love and Thanks,
Candice
(Marlee's Aunt)
MamaCan25@gmail.com
Marlee is doing really well at home. Bernard and Christina are doing a great job with her tube feedings, medications, and working on getting Marlee stronger. I've been there the last 2 days, and can honestly say that they all look very happy and relieved they are home now.
Marlee Lynn
Feeding herself snacks
Nap time
Knocked Out!
Taking steps with Mommy's help!!
Eating a sandwich!! We love that she is eating so much on her own!
(But Marlee still gets tube feedings too)
Standing with Daddy!!
"I love you all!!" -- Marlee Lynn
As you can see, Marlee is continuing to make such great progress at home! She is getting stronger with movements and standing. Marlee is eating solid foods well, but is also still being supplemented with her tube feedings. And, she is sooooo happy to be home!!
Continue the prayers and well wishes for Marlee! And, please continue to share her story and donation/help website. Thank you for to all of you for the ongoing love, prayers, and support!! Hope you enjoy seeing her remarkable and amazing progress too!
Monday, April 15, 2013
Marlee is home!!!!!!
Marlee got discharged this afternoon after her last Rituximab treatment. And, as soon as she got home she was full of smiles! The last week she was really starting to hate her hospital room. She would constantly get fussy and would be better when they were walking around pediatrics or at the play area. So, what a relief (for everyone) that she was able to come home today!!!
The fight against this "Monster" is still far from being over. Marlee came home with her NG Tube, so her primary source of feeding will still be through this tube. She is still not talking yet. And, is not able to walk yet, although she is standing for a bit.
A home health nurse will be checking in on them. And, Marlee has her next scheduled IVIG treatment next week along with PT and OT appointments.
But, coming home is a HUGE blessing. Tonight, I FaceTimed them and they all looked so happy and relieved. The smiles were priceless!
Thank you to everyone for all the generosity, care, and love that you have shown for Marlee. It definitely has been an up and down journey thus far. Keep praying for her and the family as they still will have much to contend with in the future. And, please continue to share her story, blog, and donation/help website. Any little bit will go a long way to help my niece!! Blessed and so very grateful for all of your support!!
Monster in Marlee Donation / Help Website
Marlee got discharged this afternoon after her last Rituximab treatment. And, as soon as she got home she was full of smiles! The last week she was really starting to hate her hospital room. She would constantly get fussy and would be better when they were walking around pediatrics or at the play area. So, what a relief (for everyone) that she was able to come home today!!!
The fight against this "Monster" is still far from being over. Marlee came home with her NG Tube, so her primary source of feeding will still be through this tube. She is still not talking yet. And, is not able to walk yet, although she is standing for a bit.
A home health nurse will be checking in on them. And, Marlee has her next scheduled IVIG treatment next week along with PT and OT appointments.
But, coming home is a HUGE blessing. Tonight, I FaceTimed them and they all looked so happy and relieved. The smiles were priceless!
Thank you to everyone for all the generosity, care, and love that you have shown for Marlee. It definitely has been an up and down journey thus far. Keep praying for her and the family as they still will have much to contend with in the future. And, please continue to share her story, blog, and donation/help website. Any little bit will go a long way to help my niece!! Blessed and so very grateful for all of your support!!
Monster in Marlee Donation / Help Website
“There is a light in this world, a healing spirit more powerful than any darkness we may encounter. We sometimes lose sight of this force when there is suffering, too much pain. Then suddenly, the spirit will emerge through the lives of ordinary people who hear a call and answer in extraordinary ways.”
--Mother Teresa
Marlee and her Mommy enjoying the sunshine in the Pediatric Play Area one last time before going home!
Marlee and one of her nurses that took care of her at Kaiser
Marlee at home with her Sister! Jayden is so happy!!
Mommy and Marlee so happy to be home!
Just some of the supplies that they need to care for Marlee at home. But, they will probably go through it so fast!
FaceTime with Aunty Can to tell me she made it home safe and is so excited to be out of the hospital!
Saturday, April 13, 2013
More of Marlee's Amazing Progress:
Everyday Marlee is getting stronger and making so much progress. The last few days Marlee has started to eat pureed / soft foods. She is interacting with us more. And there is improvement in her motor skills, where she is trying to pick up and hold toys. Here are some highlights from yesterday and today:
Keep the prayers coming!! Look at all her progress! Marlee can't wait to go home. And hopefully, God willing and if everything goes well, Marlee will be discharged home Monday evening! She will need outpatient physical therapy and they have already arranged for all the medical equipment she will require. It has been unbelievably amazing to see all her progress this week. It has definitely been a very blessed week for Marlee.
Even though Marlee should be coming home soon. The support and help is still needed to help with all of her medical expenses and financial challenges her family will be facing in the near future. Continue to share her story, blog, and donation site. We thank all of you for all the continued prayers and love!! We couldn't do it with out all of your help and support!!
Monster in Marlee's Donation / Help Website
Everyday Marlee is getting stronger and making so much progress. The last few days Marlee has started to eat pureed / soft foods. She is interacting with us more. And there is improvement in her motor skills, where she is trying to pick up and hold toys. Here are some highlights from yesterday and today:
Tubera Picnic and enjoying the Sun
Playing with toys in her Physical Therapy Session
Getting kisses and love from her Uncle "Bum" (Bong)
Sisters
Big Cousin Auriyana & Marlee
Can't get enough of this smile! Happy playing in the play room.
Tubera's
Marlee missed her Big Sister, Jayden
Marlee is always happy to play with her Sister
The plan is Marlee will get to go home Monday after her last Rituximab (immunosuppressant) therapy. Christina and Bernard have been getting educated on how to give meds and do Marlee's feedings with her NG Tube. Friday night, the nurse thought it would be a good idea that Mommy & Daddy PRACTICE putting in NG tubes, just in case Marlee's came out at home. Sooooo, there's no better way to practice then on each other!
Daddy putting in an NG Tube in Mommy
Mommy's attempt in putting an NG tube in Daddy
And I got to put an NG Tube in Bernard!... Between the 3 of us, Marlee is in good hands!! (Haha)
Daddy, Mommy, and Marlee with their matching NG Tubes
Marlee can't believe we put NG Tubes in each other either!!
Marlee eating Aunty Candice's home cooked dinner
Yummy!!!
Silly Girl!!!
Marlee holding a ball and playing with Big Sister, Jayden
Keep the prayers coming!! Look at all her progress! Marlee can't wait to go home. And hopefully, God willing and if everything goes well, Marlee will be discharged home Monday evening! She will need outpatient physical therapy and they have already arranged for all the medical equipment she will require. It has been unbelievably amazing to see all her progress this week. It has definitely been a very blessed week for Marlee.
Even though Marlee should be coming home soon. The support and help is still needed to help with all of her medical expenses and financial challenges her family will be facing in the near future. Continue to share her story, blog, and donation site. We thank all of you for all the continued prayers and love!! We couldn't do it with out all of your help and support!!
Monster in Marlee's Donation / Help Website
Thursday, April 11, 2013
Thank you for all the prayers... They're working!!...
TUESDAY (04/09/13)
"Peace begins with a smile." -- Mother Teresa
Marlee working with OT and building strength in her muscles
Rolling Over (Marlee has to retrain her brain to do all normal movements again)
Playing with toys in her OT session (relearning hand and eye coordination/motor skills)
Marlee & Mommy Enjoying some sunshine and getting a break from the hospital room
Mommy & Daddy learning to do Marlee's tube feeds. (Just in case Marlee has to go home with the NG tube and tube feedings).
Marlee and Mommy playing (and laughing!)
Marlee STANDING UP!! (She stood up for a few seconds before falling over!! But it was a HUGE milestone in her recovery! She's getting stronger! Keep the prayers coming!)
WEDNESDAY 04/10/13
Taking a ride in a Red wagon and enjoying the sunshine
Tummy time
Marlee drawing with Daddy! (Another BIG milestone! Keep fighting, Marlee!!)
As you can see, Marlee has 2 pretty eventful days. The progress in her is absolutely amazing and is a testament to all the prayers for Marlee. There is already talk about getting her discharged home next week. Bernard and Christina have been working with the nurses to get more comfortable managing her NG Tube, tube feedings, and administering meds through her NG Tube. Marlee continues to work with PT and OT to regain strength and increase her motor skills. Before these last 2 days, Marlee had regained alot of movement, but most were not purposeful. Now we can see that she is able to move and do things appropriately (like drawing on the IPad!).
Everyday is a blessing. And, everyday we are seeing some improvement. We are excited what the next week will bring. We thank you for all the continued prayers and support for Marlee!!
Please continue to spread and share Marlee's story. There is still a long road of recovery ahead and they can still use all the help and prayers they can get!!
Monday, April 8, 2013
Behold, blessed is the one whom God reproves; therefore despise not the discipline of the Almighty. For he wounds, but he binds up; he shatters, but his hands heal.
Job 5:17-18
Today, Marlee finished her 3rd dose of Rituximab (immunosuppressant therapy). She will have her last treatment next Monday, which will last 6 months.
Here's pictures from today:
A day seeing this smile is truly a blessing from God. Thank you for all your prayers.
Cruising around pediatrics after her 8 hour treatment of Rituximab.
Marlee's Weekend Updates
It's been a few days since I've updated Marlee's Blog. But here is a recap from this weekend:
Friday (04/05/13) We had a family conference with most of the doctors that are on Marlee's case at Kaiser. The doctors went around and gave their course, plans, and goals in caring for Marlee. And it gave us a time to ask all of our questions and get anwers.
Marlee has AUTOIMMUNE ENCEPHALITIS. It is a broad term and there are many specific types of autoimmune encephalitis. Basically, it is an inflammation of the brain because it is being attacked by the body's immune system. Symptoms may include altered level of consciousness, seizures, hallucinations, inability to speak or control movements. Treatment of autoimmune encephalitis are immunosupressant therapy, steroids, and intravenous immunoglobulin (IVIG). The prognosis and recovery of patients with autoimmune encephalitis varies from a full recovery to those being in a vegetative state. But it is usually always a very slow and long process of recovery from months to years.
Marlee was ruled out for any bacterial, viral, or neuoblastomas (cancers/tumors) throughout her hospital stays. And, they had already started treatments for her encephalitis. She is still unable to talk, walk, or eat. At the end of last week, she was also having alot of issues with her tube feedings (Marlee is being fed through a tube in her nose that goes to her stomach because of her inability to swallow/eat). The doctors were trying to increase her feedings and/or increase her calories to put some more weight on Marlee to get stronger. But everytime they changed or increased her feedings, she wasn't able to tolerate it and would end up vomiting. Because Marlee has been affected neurologically, and keeping in mind that the brain controls all the other systems in the body, we were finding that she was also having problems with her bowels. She was getting backed up and wasn't pooping. By Friday, she looked uncomfortable and in a lot of pain. X-rays confirmed that she had (for lack of better words) a big poop in her intestines that wasn't moving. They stopped her feedings, gave her suppositories, and used GoLytely to flush her system out. So, a huge goal for the doctors is to figure out her feedings so she will be able to tolerate it and not throw up continuously. And, also, monitor her GI issues to ensure that they are moving properly and regularly.
Friday, we also noticed her facial twitches/movements came back . The doctors ordered to increase her dose of Clonazepam to help with this. They need to get these extra movements/twitches under contol because it burns up alot of energy and they are already having issues with Marlee's feedings/nutrition.
During the family conference with the doctors, we also talked about the plan for Marlee. We think that she most likely will have to stay in the hospital for her next 2 weekly doses of Rituximab (immunosupressant therapy). And, they definitely need to figure out the right regimen for her feedings to help her maintain a good weight. We also discussed the need for an inpatient pediatric rehab facility when Marlee is discharged. It is going to be a long and very slow process. Marlee has a long road ahead. But we know she has a huge support group and many prayers for her strength, health, and recovery.
On the positive side of things, she started crying more. Which doesn't sound like a "positive", but at least she is making noise and is having some response. She has been holding her head up more and more. She is sitting up also and tracking. All of these little things we are so grateful for her steps in recovery.
We appreciate all the love and support that is STILL pouring in from so many. And so many that don't even know Marlee! All of the messages and the response to her story has touched us deeply. We are incredibly thankful for all the prayers, care, and conern for Marlee (and for us). Please continue to share her blog and donation website. Every little thing goes a long way!
Monster in Marlee Donation & Help Website
Per Christina & Bernard's request, please check in with the Blog for updates. Although they appreciate all the messages and those requesting/wanting to visit, please respect their privacy and allow them time to care for Marlee in the hospital. Also, with her being on immusuppresant therapy, we need to make sure that Marlee doesn't get exposed to anything to complicate or further lengthen her stay at the hospital. Thank you for your understanding and patience. And, we really are so blessed with so many friends, family, and even strangers that are praying for Marlee!
We also want to thank everyone that is sending suggestions for help or giving us contact numbers for other doctors/hospitals. We believe that the doctors have finally figured out what is going on with Marlee and are content/satisfied for the most part with the plan of treatment for her. But we are amazed at how many people have take the time and sacrificed to making sure we are getting the proper help and care for Marlee and this Monster. We are so grateful for all of you!!!
Pictures from the weekend: ENJOY!!
It's been a few days since I've updated Marlee's Blog. But here is a recap from this weekend:
Friday (04/05/13) We had a family conference with most of the doctors that are on Marlee's case at Kaiser. The doctors went around and gave their course, plans, and goals in caring for Marlee. And it gave us a time to ask all of our questions and get anwers.
Marlee has AUTOIMMUNE ENCEPHALITIS. It is a broad term and there are many specific types of autoimmune encephalitis. Basically, it is an inflammation of the brain because it is being attacked by the body's immune system. Symptoms may include altered level of consciousness, seizures, hallucinations, inability to speak or control movements. Treatment of autoimmune encephalitis are immunosupressant therapy, steroids, and intravenous immunoglobulin (IVIG). The prognosis and recovery of patients with autoimmune encephalitis varies from a full recovery to those being in a vegetative state. But it is usually always a very slow and long process of recovery from months to years.
Marlee was ruled out for any bacterial, viral, or neuoblastomas (cancers/tumors) throughout her hospital stays. And, they had already started treatments for her encephalitis. She is still unable to talk, walk, or eat. At the end of last week, she was also having alot of issues with her tube feedings (Marlee is being fed through a tube in her nose that goes to her stomach because of her inability to swallow/eat). The doctors were trying to increase her feedings and/or increase her calories to put some more weight on Marlee to get stronger. But everytime they changed or increased her feedings, she wasn't able to tolerate it and would end up vomiting. Because Marlee has been affected neurologically, and keeping in mind that the brain controls all the other systems in the body, we were finding that she was also having problems with her bowels. She was getting backed up and wasn't pooping. By Friday, she looked uncomfortable and in a lot of pain. X-rays confirmed that she had (for lack of better words) a big poop in her intestines that wasn't moving. They stopped her feedings, gave her suppositories, and used GoLytely to flush her system out. So, a huge goal for the doctors is to figure out her feedings so she will be able to tolerate it and not throw up continuously. And, also, monitor her GI issues to ensure that they are moving properly and regularly.
Friday, we also noticed her facial twitches/movements came back . The doctors ordered to increase her dose of Clonazepam to help with this. They need to get these extra movements/twitches under contol because it burns up alot of energy and they are already having issues with Marlee's feedings/nutrition.
During the family conference with the doctors, we also talked about the plan for Marlee. We think that she most likely will have to stay in the hospital for her next 2 weekly doses of Rituximab (immunosupressant therapy). And, they definitely need to figure out the right regimen for her feedings to help her maintain a good weight. We also discussed the need for an inpatient pediatric rehab facility when Marlee is discharged. It is going to be a long and very slow process. Marlee has a long road ahead. But we know she has a huge support group and many prayers for her strength, health, and recovery.
On the positive side of things, she started crying more. Which doesn't sound like a "positive", but at least she is making noise and is having some response. She has been holding her head up more and more. She is sitting up also and tracking. All of these little things we are so grateful for her steps in recovery.
We appreciate all the love and support that is STILL pouring in from so many. And so many that don't even know Marlee! All of the messages and the response to her story has touched us deeply. We are incredibly thankful for all the prayers, care, and conern for Marlee (and for us). Please continue to share her blog and donation website. Every little thing goes a long way!
Monster in Marlee Donation & Help Website
Per Christina & Bernard's request, please check in with the Blog for updates. Although they appreciate all the messages and those requesting/wanting to visit, please respect their privacy and allow them time to care for Marlee in the hospital. Also, with her being on immusuppresant therapy, we need to make sure that Marlee doesn't get exposed to anything to complicate or further lengthen her stay at the hospital. Thank you for your understanding and patience. And, we really are so blessed with so many friends, family, and even strangers that are praying for Marlee!
We also want to thank everyone that is sending suggestions for help or giving us contact numbers for other doctors/hospitals. We believe that the doctors have finally figured out what is going on with Marlee and are content/satisfied for the most part with the plan of treatment for her. But we are amazed at how many people have take the time and sacrificed to making sure we are getting the proper help and care for Marlee and this Monster. We are so grateful for all of you!!!
Pictures from the weekend: ENJOY!!
Marlee & Mommy <3
Marlee working with OT in the standing position
It is important to keep working with her and REtraining her to do normal activities again.
Marlee working with OT on brushing her teeth.
Mat time with OT
Sitting up with Me (Aunty Candice)
Marlee playing with all of us
Christina, Bernard & their Baby Girls (Marlee & Jayden)
"I'm a Rockstar!! Thank you for all your prayers!!"
Still getting Respiratory Treatments twice a day to "shake" her up and get any "junk" clearedf from her lungs.
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