Thursday, April 11, 2013

Thank you for all the prayers... They're working!!...



TUESDAY (04/09/13)
"Peace begins with a smile." -- Mother Teresa

Marlee working with OT and building strength in her muscles


Rolling Over (Marlee has to retrain her brain to do all normal movements again)


Playing with toys in her OT session (relearning hand and eye coordination/motor skills)

Marlee & Mommy Enjoying some sunshine and getting a break from the hospital room

Mommy & Daddy learning to do Marlee's tube feeds. (Just in case Marlee has to go home with the NG tube and tube feedings).


Marlee and Mommy playing (and laughing!)




Marlee STANDING UP!!  (She stood up for a few seconds before falling over!!  But it was a HUGE milestone in her recovery! She's getting stronger! Keep the prayers coming!)


WEDNESDAY 04/10/13

Taking a ride in a Red wagon and enjoying the sunshine


Tummy time


Marlee drawing with Daddy! (Another BIG milestone!  Keep fighting, Marlee!!)





As you can see, Marlee has 2 pretty eventful days.  The progress in her is absolutely amazing and is a testament to all the prayers for Marlee.  There is already talk about getting her discharged home next week.  Bernard and Christina have been working with the nurses to get more comfortable managing her NG Tube, tube feedings, and administering meds through her NG Tube.  Marlee continues to work with PT and OT to regain strength and increase her motor skills.  Before these last 2 days, Marlee had regained alot of movement, but most were not purposeful.  Now we can see that she is able to move and do things appropriately (like drawing on the IPad!).  

Everyday is a blessing.  And, everyday we are seeing some improvement.  We are excited what the next week will bring.  We thank you for all the continued prayers and support for Marlee!!  

Please continue to spread and share Marlee's story.  There is still a long road of recovery ahead and they can still use all the help and prayers they can get!!  









Monday, April 8, 2013


Behold, blessed is the one whom God reproves; therefore despise not the discipline of the Almighty. For he wounds, but he binds up; he shatters, but his hands heal.
                                                                                                 Job 5:17-18




Today, Marlee finished her 3rd dose of Rituximab (immunosuppressant therapy).  She will have her last treatment next Monday, which will last 6 months.  

Here's pictures from today:


A day seeing this smile is truly a blessing from God.  Thank you for all your prayers.  



Cruising around pediatrics after her 8 hour treatment of Rituximab.  


Marlee's Weekend Updates


It's been a few days since I've updated Marlee's Blog.  But here is a recap from this weekend:

Friday (04/05/13) We had a family conference with most of the doctors that are on Marlee's case at Kaiser.  The doctors went around and gave their course, plans, and goals in caring for Marlee.  And it gave us a time to ask all of our questions and get anwers. 

Marlee has AUTOIMMUNE ENCEPHALITIS.  It is a broad term and there are many specific types of autoimmune encephalitis.  Basically, it is an inflammation of the brain because it is being attacked by the body's immune system.  Symptoms may include altered level of consciousness, seizures, hallucinations, inability to speak or control movements.  Treatment of autoimmune encephalitis are immunosupressant therapy, steroids, and intravenous immunoglobulin (IVIG).  The prognosis and recovery of patients with autoimmune encephalitis varies from a full recovery to those being in a vegetative state.  But it is usually always a very slow and long process of recovery from months to years. 

Marlee was ruled out for any bacterial, viral, or neuoblastomas (cancers/tumors) throughout her hospital stays.  And, they had already started treatments for her encephalitis.  She is still unable to talk, walk, or eat.  At the end of last week, she was also having alot of issues with her tube feedings (Marlee is being fed through a tube in her nose that goes to her stomach because of her inability to swallow/eat).  The doctors were trying to increase her feedings and/or increase her calories to put some more weight on Marlee to get stronger.  But everytime they changed or increased her feedings, she wasn't able to tolerate it and would end up vomiting.  Because Marlee has been affected neurologically, and keeping in mind that the brain controls all the other systems in the body, we were finding that she was also having problems with her bowels. She was getting backed up and wasn't pooping.  By Friday, she looked uncomfortable and in a lot of pain.  X-rays confirmed that she had (for lack of better words) a big poop in her intestines that wasn't moving.  They stopped her feedings, gave her suppositories, and used GoLytely to flush her system out.  So, a huge goal for the doctors is to figure out her feedings so she will be able to tolerate it and not throw up continuously.  And, also, monitor her GI issues to ensure that they are moving properly and regularly. 

Friday, we also noticed her facial twitches/movements came back .  The doctors ordered to increase her dose of Clonazepam to help with this.  They need to get these extra movements/twitches under contol because it burns up alot of energy and they are already having issues with Marlee's feedings/nutrition. 

During the family conference with the doctors, we also talked about the plan for Marlee.  We think that she most likely will have to stay in the hospital for her next 2 weekly doses of Rituximab (immunosupressant therapy).  And, they definitely need to figure out the right regimen for her feedings to help her maintain a good weight.  We also discussed the need for an inpatient pediatric rehab facility when Marlee is discharged.  It is going to be a long and very slow process.  Marlee has a long road ahead.  But we know she has a huge support group and many prayers for her strength, health, and recovery. 

On the positive side of things, she started crying more.  Which doesn't sound like a "positive", but at least she is making noise and is having some response.  She has been holding her head up more and more.  She is sitting up also and tracking.  All of these little things we are so grateful for her steps in recovery. 

We appreciate all the love and support that is STILL pouring in from so many.  And so many that don't even know Marlee!  All of the messages and the response to her story has touched us deeply.  We are incredibly thankful for all the prayers, care, and conern for Marlee (and for us).  Please continue to share her blog and donation website.  Every little thing goes a long way! 
Monster in Marlee Donation & Help Website

Per Christina & Bernard's request, please check in with the Blog for updates.  Although they appreciate all the messages and those requesting/wanting to visit, please respect their privacy and allow them time to care for Marlee in the hospital.  Also, with her being on immusuppresant therapy, we need to make sure that Marlee doesn't get exposed to anything to complicate or further lengthen her stay at the hospital.  Thank you for your understanding and patience.  And, we really are so blessed with so many friends, family, and even strangers that are praying for Marlee! 

We also want to thank everyone that is sending suggestions for help or giving us contact numbers for other doctors/hospitals.  We believe that the doctors have finally figured out what is going on with Marlee and are content/satisfied for the most part with the plan of treatment for her.  But we are amazed at how many people have take the time and sacrificed to making sure we are getting the proper help and care for Marlee and this Monster.  We are so grateful for all of you!!!

Pictures from the weekend:  ENJOY!!




Marlee & Mommy <3
 
 
 

Marlee working with OT in the standing position

 
It is important to keep working with her and REtraining her to do normal activities again.
Marlee working with OT on brushing her teeth.

 
Mat time with OT
 
 
Sitting up with Me (Aunty Candice)
 
 
Marlee playing with all of us
 
 
Christina, Bernard & their Baby Girls (Marlee & Jayden)
 
 
"I'm a Rockstar!!  Thank you for all your prayers!!"
 
 
Still getting Respiratory Treatments twice a day to "shake" her up and get any "junk" clearedf from her lungs. 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 


Wednesday, April 3, 2013

 
"There is nothing in the world so irresistibly contagious as laughter and good humor."
--Charles Dickens
 
 
 
 
Seeing Marlee laugh is truly a great gift and blessing.  And, today, she blessed us with a lot of laughter.  Her Big Sister, Jayden has been the only one that has been able to make her laugh.  But today, Marlee laughed at her cousin, Dylan and me (her Aunty Candice)!  Another step in her recovery! 
 
A Gastroenterologist also came to consult on Marlee's case.  He explained his goal and plans to help Marlee gain weight, increase her caloric intake, and be able to hold it down without vomiting.  They will continue to give her Prilosec to help with the reflux and give it about 2 weeks to see if it helps. There is concern that because of her brain insult that it has also affected her stomach/intestines.  Marlee may need other studies or medications to help ensure the correct and proper movement of her bowels and stomach.   
 
We are very thankful for all the little improvements being seen.  Marlee laughing, being able to track and recognize us, and holding up her head for longer periods of time.  But we also realize that there is still a very long road of recovery for Marlee.  Please continue to pray for her, keep her in your thoughts, send your love, and support the family.  We are truly grateful for everything and everyday we see all the miracles with Marlee's recovery. 

Continue to share her donation website:
The Unknown Monster in Marlee
 
 
Marlee in the "Tumbler Chair" and laughing at Jayden & Dylan
 
 
Marlee standing wtih OT
 
 
Laughing at Aunty Can
 
 
 
A recap of Marlee's Day:
(Respiratory Treatment; Sitting in the Tumbler Chair and laughing; Laughing at Aunty Can; and getting suctioned by her off-duty Respiratory Therapist, Aunty Can)


Laughing at her cousin, Dylan:
 
 


 
 
 
 

Tuesday (04/02/13) - late post

Marlee had a great PT session.  PT got her up to a standing position.  Although, she still isn't strong enough to stand or walk yet, it was a good step in building up her strength.

Respiratory treatments were started on Marlee in hopes to help with her persistent cough.  She is getting the ThAIRapy vest (Chest physiotherapy) to help loosen any secretions in her lungs.  Although her chest x-ray came back as clear and normal, she's had a persistent coarse, wet sounding cough.

We had a tough evening... They had been trying to increase her NG tube feedings and calorie intake.  But yesterday she a lot of trouble tolerating her feedings.  She vomited 4 times in less than 2 hours and it continued until the night.  Her tube feedings were held and they increased her IV fluids.

Marlee had us visiting her the entire day.  Her cousins, Auriyana & Dylan wanted to spend their Spring Break with Marlee and her sisters.  Actually, I think they all LOVE the JW House!! It makes them feel like they're in a hotel on vacation, I think!

Here are pictures from yesterday (04/02/13):


Enjoying some sunshine with Daddy at the Pediatric Play Area


Cousins (Auriyana & Dylan) Came to spend the day with Marlee







Physical Therapy Session

Trying to get Marlee to stand and take a few steps to Daddy

 
 
Marlee's First Respiratory Treatment (ThAIRapy Vest, aka Marlee's Harlem Shake!)
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Getting her blood drawn
 
 
Watching TV with Sister Jayden
 
 

 


Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Kaiser Santa Clara's JW HOUSE



"Never ever give up and do believe that everything finally leads to something good." 
----- JW KNAPEN



Last night Christina and Marlee's sisters were able to stay at the JW House at Kaiser.  It is such a great place for families allowing them to stay close to care for their loved ones in the hospital in a comfortable home-like setting.  But beyond that, the story behind the JW House and what their intentions are, is amazing... 

The JW HOUSE Story:

"At the age of 14, JW (Jan-Willem) Knapen had a normal life - he was a freshman in high school, played the bongos for choir, enjoyed drawing and sculpting, and was the loving big brother and oldest son of a close-knit Belgian family.  But over Thanksgiving break in 2002, JW began to have seizures and was quickly diagnosed with three different brain tumors.  Over the last two years, 16 year old JW Knapen showed courage and grace in his grueling fight against brain cancer, enduring surgery, radiation and chemotherapy treatments. 

In April 2004, when a virulent, inoperable new brain tumor was discovered, JW decided to focus on how he might help others with medical struggles of their own.  He envisioned building a house near the Kaiser Permanente Hospital, in Santa Clara, California, where families can stay with their loved ones during long hospitalizations.  He wnted this house to be a place for brothers and sisters to talk quietly; a place for moms, dads, and grandparents to be able to eat together; a place to talk with other families that are facing similar challenges -- a place that feels like a "home-away-from-home". 

With the help of his oncologist, Dr. Alan Wong, JW's dream has become a reality.  JW's generous spirit and determination to make a better future for other families touched by illness, has been inspirational and humbling.

JW House is now open and welcomed the first family on Wednesday, December 3, 2008.  The house is 5700 square feet and has 4 individual apartments; 2 studios and 2 one-bedroom suites, each with a kitchenette and full bath.  It is situated on a 1/2 acre lot, on the Kaiser Permanente Hospital campus, in Santa Clara, California.  In addition to the apartments, families can use the large common space area, which includes a living room, play room, dining room, laundry room and large kitchen.  The house also has a day use room for showers and naps.  It has a beautiful high ceiling design with lots of windows and a large central fireplace.  Our house is surrounded with picturesque garden areas and space off of each apartment unit, for a semi-private patio/garden retreat.  Our goal is to provide our families with a beautiful and restful place that feels like home."


Christina requested that I share this information with all of you. It is truly an amazing gift that was started with a courageous and determined young man that is providing many families a home-like place to rest comfortably and peacefully while caring for their loved ones in the hospital.  And, I know that they are truly grateful to have received an accommodation, especially during the girls' spring break so Marlee is able to spend time with her sisters this week.  

Please continue to share Marlee's donation website.  Donations will also help with the costs of their JW House rooms.  Thank you for the continued support and prayers!! 
The Unknown Monster in Marlee Donation Website


To find out more about the JW House and how you can make donations to support the JW House, visit their website at:
JW HOUSE




Monday, April 1, 2013

April 1, 2013 Updates:


The doctors are trying to figure out the best way that Marlee will tolerate an increase in calories.  Increasing her tube feedings have been causing her to constantly vomit.

Today she finished her round of steroids and tolerated the 5 day course well.  She also received her second dose of Rituximab today.  PT & OT was held for the administering of the Rituximab as a precaution to not compromise her IV site.

Tonight, Marlee also had a chest x-ray done because she has been coughing quite a bit.

Pictures from today:
Marlee getting her Chest X-Ray


Marlee had a special visit from her babysitter, Alix! (Thank you, Alix!) 



Please continue to keep Marlee and the family in your prayers.  We are so grateful for all of you.  And please continue to share her YOU CARING website for information on how you can help Marlee.